You're getting obsessed over the word "blame" and choosing to treat it as an attack and not engaging at all with what is said.
Now, can you give a response or are you just going to cry because you don't like HOW I said something but seem to indicate no problem with WHAT I said, only HOW I said it.
>you have no empathy
No, it's because I have empathy that I try to help these people out of the hole and recognize their actions for what they truly are at the end of the day. If someone's coping, I will tell them they're coping. I don't really do the whole /xivg/ coddly "nice" bullshit, I'm really more oriented towards being truly kind for people and helping them get to where they wanna be even if that makes me have to take up the mantle of being the asshole at times.