>>76329867
yes, also there is a lot of luck/randomness when it comes to relationships. not just romantic ones. think of all your closest friends, how you met them, I'm sure there will be many coincidences, like having a flat tyre at the same street, or bumping into eachother at the end of a concert and spilling your drink. same with romantic ones. a lot of couples will have an interesting story of how they met, some bizarre one in a billion chance, when they both happened to be recently broken up, and somehow met up randomly. of course this is dying, since everyone spends loads of time on tinder, but my point is - don't forget the randomness of life, and when you see an opportunity - seize it. when it starts raining randomly, and you share an umbrella with a stranger, talk with them, get to know them for that short time, maybe they will be your partner (or best friend if it's a dude).

don't get too invested in schizo redpill blackpill theories, relationship and their beginings are multifaceted, chaotic, random. take life as it is.