When I experience something bad in my life, like someone hurting my feelings, I don't blame that experience on innocent people. This includes generalizing and making assumptions about people I don't know based off past experiences. If you do that, why?

This is probably the most spiritually dead place I've seen on the internet. No originality, always emulating common, false metrics of happiness and success. While also telling others they can't complain as if proud of your suffering. No self awareness, constantly pulling eachother down, can't take criticism. Attention addict bait threads, overgeneralizing entire groups of people due to recency bias. Close-mindedness, overemotionality. Not seeking solutions to your problems but still complaining. Projecting problems onto innocent people, unrealistic expectations, lying, avoidant and limerant relationships. Attacking people over immutable characteristics. etc. It's like 90% of you have covert narcissism. Why does this place attract hylics?