a girl was quite desperate to get married and start having kids, and wanted to start dating me after we had lunch together like 20 times and spent a lot of time on the phone together. the problem is the entire time I was oneitusing for another girl and being a huge simp and asking this girl what to do almost every day, if I had settled for this girl I didn't find very attractive, no doubt it would have never left her mind that she was my second choice and I was obsessed and simping for another girl until I couldn't anymore