Is lookism ruining fashion?

>hey guys how do i look the most attractive
>bro just do 3-5mm stubble
>get a short clean haircut
>dress like taylor swifts stylist is choosing clothes for her boyfriend
>viola
>anon now looks generically "handsome" without any personal style

I've noticed so many guys just trying to be generically hot and then losing any swag they may have had. It's like they perma-fuck themselves by playing a harder game just because women don't communicate well