How do i tell my mom who thinks i'm a hon that i pass without sounding mad?

Last week before wearing my single girlmode outfit for the first time i asked my mom what she thinks of it fully expecting her to say something disparaging but she just said "nice" and now i've been wearing it all week and today i visited her (in different clothes) and she was like "i hope you didn't actually buy those ugly ass clothes lmao" (paraphrased) and i'm pretty sure she's just hating because she (wrongly) considers me a hon an doesn't like me girlmoding, should i kill myself?

Last week before wearing my single girlmode outfit for the first time i asked my mom what she thinks of it fully expecting her to say something disparaging but she just said "nice" and now i've been wearing it all week and today i visited her (in different clothes) and she was like "i hope you didn't actually buy those ugly ass clothes lmao" (paraphrased) and i'm pretty sure she's just hating because she (wrongly) considers me a hon an doesn't like me girlmoding, should i kill myself?

>>40288364
I didn't catch any stares while manmoding even though i got gendered female half the time and still don't catch any states now that i'm girlmoding idk what that means

>>40269675
I still use my dude name but it's so foreign that people here can't tell what gender it is