>>11340939
lol, I have 4 of them.
I bought 2 different sizes in "soft" initially. I don't recommend "soft" for anal, unless you like it for some reason.
Personally, I prefer horsecocks or dildos with flares AND knots (for that ultimate filled feeling) but to each their own.

>>11334356
NTA. My wife had a lot of questions when I brought it up ranging from "are you a faggot" to "are you a tranny". I like role swapping (and yeah, that includes some crossdressing). Anyway, it worked out. in my case, my wife was kinda kinky to begin with and we did other kink and she's fine as long as i'm not attracted to other people. I want to take/suck a real cock so bad and feel it squirt it my mouth but that will almost definitely remain a fantasy, and I'm okay with that. like, one of her fantasies is a gangbang but same for her. sometimes you give things up to be an adult.
>>11335382
my wife and i are also into chastity as well sometimes. I fuck her hard with strap ons. no man can really compare to that. weve been together 13 years. js