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7/17/2025, 6:18:17 PM
RE: the NEET epidemic
Multi-faceted problem.
Usually people who weren't pushed at all, and just allowed to coast through life. Socially a misfit, so they never felt pressure to at least match peers achievements. Life hits different as a teen when everyone has girlfriends and a job and college prospects and you dont. The shame will drive you to do it.
Generally physically less attractive and introverted. More risk averse. Aren't willing to risk the 'pain' of developing relationships and "woo'ing" women. Constant seeking of comfort. However comfort causes them to rot, and they grow weaker and softer every year, making it harder and harder to do the things they need to do to get out of it.
Depression follows. Their life becomes watching a screen, eating, sometimes showering, going to the bathroom, and sleeping. Low physical activity makes them grow weaker, more tired, more sluggish. Then they become completely trapped, weak, retarded, entertained, and worst of all, comfortable. They never grow but seek endless hobbies and entertainment that allow them to carry on the delusion of "growth".
Multi-faceted problem.
Usually people who weren't pushed at all, and just allowed to coast through life. Socially a misfit, so they never felt pressure to at least match peers achievements. Life hits different as a teen when everyone has girlfriends and a job and college prospects and you dont. The shame will drive you to do it.
Generally physically less attractive and introverted. More risk averse. Aren't willing to risk the 'pain' of developing relationships and "woo'ing" women. Constant seeking of comfort. However comfort causes them to rot, and they grow weaker and softer every year, making it harder and harder to do the things they need to do to get out of it.
Depression follows. Their life becomes watching a screen, eating, sometimes showering, going to the bathroom, and sleeping. Low physical activity makes them grow weaker, more tired, more sluggish. Then they become completely trapped, weak, retarded, entertained, and worst of all, comfortable. They never grow but seek endless hobbies and entertainment that allow them to carry on the delusion of "growth".
7/16/2025, 6:12:50 PM
Failed-to-launch men: uneducated, unskilled, unemployed, lonely, no wife or children, no ambition or goals, bitter, blaming others for their failures, no savings or retirement plan.
Much of what we think is ideology is more accurately a failure of young losers to launch into maturity.
How can society survive with the burden of failed-to-launch men who contribute nothing to society?
He's 35 and asking complete strangers online what he should do with his life. Ultimately it doesn't matter what they or anyone suggests to him because he won't do it. Not because he's a dick but because he was neglected as a child and never had proper guidance from the people who should have mattered in his life when it mattered most. He never gained the confidence necessary to transition into adulthood, to set goals for his life and to set about realising them. He's never had friends and has no social skills.
He sees people his age with wives, families and careers and thinks that should be him too because he's ages with them. But he doesn't fully understand he's in a race that started 25 years ago. He can no more become those people than he can become an Olympic athlete. It's too late.
A post asking for suggestions is actually a man lost in life shouting for help, hoping that someone will care for and nurture him. Sadly, that isn't something which online strangers can provide for him. No comment reply in that thread, or this one, will be enough to undo 35 lost years or to provide the direction or motivation needed to course correct. But laying out his frustrations on the internet is all he feels capable of doing. He is entrenched in learned helplessness and ultimately even if he recognises this, it doesn't undo it.
Options:
>life as a miserable wage-slave making barely enough to survive in a pathetic min-wage job
>hoping a ran-through woman in her 30s (who is also mentally ill) might use him as a sperm donor, then both of them 'raise' another generation of failed adults
>suicide
Much of what we think is ideology is more accurately a failure of young losers to launch into maturity.
How can society survive with the burden of failed-to-launch men who contribute nothing to society?
He's 35 and asking complete strangers online what he should do with his life. Ultimately it doesn't matter what they or anyone suggests to him because he won't do it. Not because he's a dick but because he was neglected as a child and never had proper guidance from the people who should have mattered in his life when it mattered most. He never gained the confidence necessary to transition into adulthood, to set goals for his life and to set about realising them. He's never had friends and has no social skills.
He sees people his age with wives, families and careers and thinks that should be him too because he's ages with them. But he doesn't fully understand he's in a race that started 25 years ago. He can no more become those people than he can become an Olympic athlete. It's too late.
A post asking for suggestions is actually a man lost in life shouting for help, hoping that someone will care for and nurture him. Sadly, that isn't something which online strangers can provide for him. No comment reply in that thread, or this one, will be enough to undo 35 lost years or to provide the direction or motivation needed to course correct. But laying out his frustrations on the internet is all he feels capable of doing. He is entrenched in learned helplessness and ultimately even if he recognises this, it doesn't undo it.
Options:
>life as a miserable wage-slave making barely enough to survive in a pathetic min-wage job
>hoping a ran-through woman in her 30s (who is also mentally ill) might use him as a sperm donor, then both of them 'raise' another generation of failed adults
>suicide
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