I can definitely relate to the topic, I'm a feminine guy myself, not really a twink anymore since I'm also in my 30s (though funny enough, I feel like I'm in the best shape of my life at this time for the build I like for myself lol)

But yeah, I too have not had much luck meeting muscular guys who are into smaller guys as they tend to be into other muscled guys. I only met one years ago who claimed her liked feminine guys but he lived in another country and I wasn't looking for long distance. Besides him though, its been crickets unfortunately. If anything, as I got more in shape, I just attracted more older out of shape "daddy" types which aren't my type at all lol.