>>81563527
>but really you should be doing these things for yourself
The thing I've come to realize is that I can't really have a girlfriend unless I find a way to make decent money. Even if I achieved 8/10+ looks, if I'm a broke loser, I might be able to score with some girls, but not very many of them are going to be interested in dating me. Women want fun, and you're not going to be very fun as a broke loser. If she wants to get married and start a family, she's not going to want to date you or continue dating you. There will always be some crazy girls who don't give a fuck, though, but you probably don't want these types. How much of a role money plays will be debated, but a couple things are for certain, rich chad will always have the most options and the easiest time with women, and being poor in general is very debilitating. And don't worry, I'm not planning on using money as a crutch. I've also been working really hard and consistently on improving my looks, losing fat and gaining muscle, and I avoid dressing and presenting myself weirdly.