She takes forever to reply to texts
She doesn't reciprocate in bed
She has initiated 0 dates

However she constantly flirts in person, initiates touch regularly and after sex she'll open up about her childhood and say all this stuff about how how happy and content she is lying next to me.

But she makes ZERO effort.

Is this what "casual" dating looks like? I don't like it.

Shall I talk to her about what we're doing, pull back a little or just end it?