Just to help explain what's going on here, take a look at this post. It perfectly sums up the cultural difference. "Yeah, we do the absolute gayest shit imaginable on a regular basis, but at least we're not faggots like you." When you read ancient Greek arguments for or against faggotry, keep in mind that their definition of "not faggotry" includes stuff that would make all but the most pride-flag waving Americans screech and throw a fit.