>>33416212
While not a virgin, I'm 32 and single. I have my parents and only like 2 good friends. Unfortunately many many men are now experiencing high levels of loneliness, and while being a virgin a 34 is uncommon, it's becoming less so. What I'm getting at, is you are not alone in you struggles, but you cannot become someone who wallows in them. There will be no guarantee of getting you a gf or anything like that, but I can guarantee your life will become better as you shed yourself of bad habits, engage in self-care and self-improvement, and put yourself in situations that scare you.

For example, in the past month, I've flushed most of my drugs, quit porn (hope I can keep it that way), forced myself out of the house and to events (movie festivals, live music, etc.), and am finally learning to drive (lifetime phobia). All of these things hurt, all of these things take constant effort, but compared to just a month ago, I am living more, and enjoying more of what I have.

Of the couples I do know, the vast majority pretty much only have each-other, and are themselves still wracked by loneliness. One of my good friends is in such a state right now, and confided his depression to me about a week ago. A gf will not cure your depression, as it has not cured his. Instead, little by little, strive to better yourself and connect to people of all types. Give love to others in small ways, even through the common courtesies of daily life, and also, you must begin to forgive and love yourself.

I'll say three Hail Mary's for you.