Another part of it is being raised in a relatively safe, superficially feminist society. Good times create weak (or naive, rather) women. They simply cannot envision personally experiencing the well known atrocities of Islamic states, much like most of us can't truly imagine experiencing ethnic cleansing or human vivisection. Being caned in public or stoned to death is a similar abstraction to them, akin to watching a zombie apocalypse movie.

It's terminal tradwhore NLOG syndrome aka king of the rubble mindset.