The club/bar scene is a scam. She goes there to reject every single guy that makes a move on her in order to boost her ego. It's a rejection competition between her and her friends, and God pity the fool who thinks he has a chance with her. Sometimes you might get laid if you're attractive enough to overcome her defenses however THE NEXT DAY SHE WILL DECIDE YOU'RE DONE AND GHOST YOU. This happens 100% of the times you get some luck in the club/bar scene.

Dating apps are a scam as well(imagine trusting big corporations to give you want you want). The algorithm wants you to become a premium member and keep paying so they will just tease you with the possibility of getting a girl but never actually give you one. At the same time women in the dating apps think you're a sexless loser for using them and will automatically reject you after getting your validation.

Social circles have collapsed due to the social media takeover, so meeting a girl through friends is a thing of the past. Making plans and going out with friends is a thing in recession and GOD HELP THE MAN who didn't go to university to build up a social circle in his 20s. There's no socializing with new people after you reach 30.

That leaves us with cold approaching which NO LONGER works since "it's 2025 and you should be doing the things above THAT DON'T WORK EITHER".

So how the fuck do you escape the loop?