>>1860239
>I heard that the best place to level up from 58 to 61 is the traitors graveyard
Right now there is a hot time event with +1000% XP so heading to any grindspot is going to be good XP. Don't forget the daily +200% scroll from Y that you can collect 3 to make a +600%, also the 530% scrolls with loyalties, these alone should be enough to push your character to 61 quickly while grinding anywhere.
Speaking of grindspots, you should check the infinite HP and Mana pot spots, there is an event running now which you can check out to finish them faster, and the HP pot spots aren't half bad either. After your graduation, there is also a Levelling Aid questline from Fughar, that will also send you to these spots again which will reward you with 3k Caphras stones and another "kill X monsters" for 100 Atanis Elements, which are filler pities for any of the 2 pots. So you can kill 3 birds with one stone by trying these spots. Oh, and since everyone will also be in these spots, it's time to learn about Marni realm. For 1 hour, you can enter a private grinding zone where no one can annoy you and you can grind in peace. For the timer to recharge, sit online outside Marni realm for 1 hour and you can go back into Marni again if you wish.
>and the second best option is questing with a special book
That was an option 5 years ago, please don't do repeatable and boring quests for XP when a +1k XP and +100% droprate event is up.

>>1860250
>and is now doing 1000 hours at Honglim with a PEN Sovereign main hand and C4 boss armors
I'm sorry to hear that.