Why is the menu experience in this game so fucking painful?

Can't go back to the start screen, can't go to save select, can't have multiple files, can't can't can't.
One you start the fucking game you're locked in and to quit you have to press ESC what the fuck is this retarded fucking menu handling.

WHERE THE FUCK ARE THE DAEDRA SHRINES IN THIS FUCKING GAME.
I SWEAR I'VE WALKED ALL OVER SKYRIM AND I'VE FOUND LIKE 3.

I've found:
Azura
Boethiah
Dagon
Hermaeus
Molaq Bal
Pyrite

I should have like 12 by now, are they ALL hidden behind overworld quests and shit, not actual shrines?

WHY DOES THIS WEBSITE RUN SLOWER THAN RETARDED CHINKS ON DOPE AND MAKE MY PC FANS RUN HOTTER THAN BF4 ON MAX GRAPHICS???