Where would a 30 yo man meet women?
They're not at church (not an atheist or against religion, but churches in US seem to be family businesses or Catholic clergy obsessed with convincing you they're the only real church)
They're not outside (i see some jogging but that seems weird, also almost all either have kids or are over my looks match)
They're not at hobby places
I've seen some at food places with alcohol but I'm not attractive enough to cold approach

Tahrainah-chan! Being this mean to the other trainahs isn't very adult. I... I'll stopping giving you bye bye kisses after training if you keep this up!