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6/30/2025, 12:30:46 AM
>>40220930
Actually devastated when I learned lmao. Especially since I'd been using this trip in sig (I only trip here for readability) since 2023.
>>40221239
>that they're not as tough on LGBT stuff
Yea so the only thing i'd flag on probably would be a blackmail risk, like i'm financially sound, but also if GCHQ (well it's not GCHQ who do checks iirc but whatevs) ever see this, i genuinely don't give a shit if I get outed once i'm in service i'm just dodging a silly joining policy issue - my plan is still to tell my CoC as soon as I'm through Ph2 and at a unit.
>work case
This is the easiest one, I'd probably end up just leaving b/c i'd say 90% odds of harassment issues.
>worst case
It's not like I'll get disowned, I think, but constant judgement and/or potentially getting paraded about as token trans kid by my Mum in particular, like as a child she used to routinely humiliate me in front of her friends for being friends with girls etc and she's given away info i've told her in trust and asked her to keep private before. She said to me before she wanted a gay kid (when I was like 15), and it's like
>oh great you want a token to parade to your friends to show how progressive you are
((this contributed to me repping btw))
My brother would probably be embarrassed by me if anything if still friendly, SIL might treat me as "one of the good ones" maybe (we're fairly close - I say self IDs as terf, think tiktok radfem)
For my dad, it's hard to gauge, but I expect 50/50 either accepting or continuous judgment about something he'll likely view as a mistake (which would push me back towards repping).
It's not like I'll be shit out of luck even if I was kicked out, lost contact entirely etc, but I'm in the position of not wanting to have my relationships change because they're in a good place, while recognising the inevitability of that change. For the most part, I just dont want to have to argue with my family over being trans and how they handle that.
Actually devastated when I learned lmao. Especially since I'd been using this trip in sig (I only trip here for readability) since 2023.
>>40221239
>that they're not as tough on LGBT stuff
Yea so the only thing i'd flag on probably would be a blackmail risk, like i'm financially sound, but also if GCHQ (well it's not GCHQ who do checks iirc but whatevs) ever see this, i genuinely don't give a shit if I get outed once i'm in service i'm just dodging a silly joining policy issue - my plan is still to tell my CoC as soon as I'm through Ph2 and at a unit.
>work case
This is the easiest one, I'd probably end up just leaving b/c i'd say 90% odds of harassment issues.
>worst case
It's not like I'll get disowned, I think, but constant judgement and/or potentially getting paraded about as token trans kid by my Mum in particular, like as a child she used to routinely humiliate me in front of her friends for being friends with girls etc and she's given away info i've told her in trust and asked her to keep private before. She said to me before she wanted a gay kid (when I was like 15), and it's like
>oh great you want a token to parade to your friends to show how progressive you are
((this contributed to me repping btw))
My brother would probably be embarrassed by me if anything if still friendly, SIL might treat me as "one of the good ones" maybe (we're fairly close - I say self IDs as terf, think tiktok radfem)
For my dad, it's hard to gauge, but I expect 50/50 either accepting or continuous judgment about something he'll likely view as a mistake (which would push me back towards repping).
It's not like I'll be shit out of luck even if I was kicked out, lost contact entirely etc, but I'm in the position of not wanting to have my relationships change because they're in a good place, while recognising the inevitability of that change. For the most part, I just dont want to have to argue with my family over being trans and how they handle that.
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