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I did tell her this when we were arguing, and she said (irritated):
>"I thought you were joking and pretending you didn't know, even when you asked multiple times"
Most of the time (50-75%) she's pretty immediate in telling me what I've done to annoy her, though usually it's much more obvious to me.

Our arguments are sometimes stupid, sometimes not.

The one last year (pretty much exactly a year ago), where she actually said "I want to break up" but reneged on it 6 hours later:
>I told her I had an weekend-long event in the city, and I'd be completely busy.
>She said she understood.
>That Sunday she wanted to hang out, so came to join me.
>She got bored after a 1-2 hours, and wanted us to leave and go home much earlier (event ended at 7:30pm, she wanted to leave at 3:30pm).
>I said, quite bluntly, no, I'd stay, and I'd join her later if she wanted to leave.
>She doesn't like the tone I use and breaks up (after lambasting me in the middle of a public park).

The bus incident a few weeks ago was more justifiably frustrating to her:
>we were going out to meet friends.
>Because of my time blindness we were 30 minutes late.
>she gets annoyed and starts asking me what I'm going to do to fix it in future
>I give solutions but she shuts every one of them down, saying they'll never work, asks for new solutions, repeat.
>says I know how long it takes me to get ready, and when I needed to leave, so I should have zero problem leaving on time
>she spends 10 minutes straight raising her voice and ranting at me on a crowded bus

Other things are just odd:
>in a group setting with friends
>talking about movie preferences
>someone brings up subtitles
>I say "I usually put them on because poor audio mixing makes me miss dialogue"
>gf was under the impression that I put subtitles on to prevent her needing to ask whoever we were with to do so, saving her embarrasment as English is her second language.
>This upset her and later lead to an argument that evening.