what should i do when every guy i talk to eventually turns me down and ghosts me when he learns i am waiting until marriage? for context i am diagnosed with aspergers so i usually say whats on my mind very bluntly, and bring up that i am a virgin dating to marry. they have all been different types of guys, its not like i was actively seeking out a certain type. even some guys off of 4chan treated me this way, why? i thought men liked virgins?