its actually really hurtful and i still feel gutted about it

>meet someone
>develop a deep friendship (or so i thought)
>we hang out every day for half a year
>they start to suspect im a woman
>they keep trying to talk about marriage and having kids as totally a joke
>starts sending me pictures of them irl to try and bait me into sending pictures
>then the convo turns serious "you are not actually a man are you"
>"haha im totally a big burly dude bro"
>they stop hanging out with me because its becoming clear i dont want to do a LDR and i couldnt lie well enough to make them believe im a man
>turns out they were only my friend because of my holes

The most fucked up part? If they hadn't shown their true face, ie ditching me because of it, i would have considered it.