i don't make porny moans during sex. i can't fake anything. i got too used to keeping quiet while masturbating in my room for decades so i am dead silent until when i am about to coom. then my breathing gets heavy. but i make no noises. is this a dealbreaker for moids? do i need to fake it? were we brainwashed by porn into thinking being noisy is the norm and sex is actually quieter?