>Met a new person
>Their father just had heart surgery
>My dad has had the same procedure
>I go out of my way to be kind to this person and ask about their dad every time I see them
>My alleged friends had never bothered to do the same for me when my dad was ill
>I feel kinda shitty because my "kindness" is motivated by resentment
I do like this person (and others I've met) but I'm constantly occupied with being better than my former friends rather than genuinely forming new connections