I'm not antinatalist but I think we can stop pretending like everyone should have kids until we fix the network of laws that incentivize things like divorce, single motherhood, and paternity fraud. Women don't want to have kids because they're no longer necessary as a survival strategy for them. They want a wedding, but they don't actually need the husband or kids anymore thanks to pro-female laws, scholarships, and hiring practices that give them economic advantages over men. There's also the fact that women's animal instinct discourages breeding if they don't feel like their environment is stable or safe. Things like crime, mass migration, and even economic instability influence women to delay pregnancy.