>>40026706
>I've been messing around with music production and djing... I think maybe that counts?
It does! I mean, when making music you constantly iterate things as well.
Have you had the experience where you knew something you'd try wouldn't necessarily work out at all, but you tried anyway?
>when I try to plan things with people, they don't end up actually happening.
>Especially with my mom growing up.
Ohh I relate to that lot actually. I think this is the nice thing about S.M.A.R.T. goals (see resources) because you force yourself in advance to settle a beginning, middle and end. While the experiences you made often arise from the "finding a date" never going anywhere, right? Nipping that bit in the bud would likely help.
>I didn't end up going...
>The advisor's office is only open Mon-Wed
One gentle slap on the wrist, let's take it from the top on Monday then! And hey, you did a dentist appointment, that's a W in my book. Please ping me Wed latest if you read this. Is that a good deal?
>I might be able to figure something like that out.
Keep me posted~
>I really shouldn't keep putting it off...
Which is why I have been prodding you in the direction I have, because I feel like, since HRT is now settled as a guaranteed eventuality, I want to make sure you don't get hung up on concerns that will feel immaterial once ignored (this happens to me a lot, you should see me freeze up writing emails).
>kind of? I'm not too sure, I might have to think more about this...
Think about it, if this thought feels confusing, then chances are that there is something not fully articulated in your head that is a decisive part of why you are hesitant.
>>40029540
>I wish you the best, I'm sure you will be okay.
Thank you, Anon. I am happy to report the funeral was casualty-free!
>>40057363
Take all the time you need, I do too!
>>40057238
There's so little art of her but her manga panels have a couple bangers!