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it's all relative to ones individual developmental traumas if you got ransacked by loneliness as many people are then you'll naturally yearn for the kind of subdued youthful romance whose absence and deprivation harangued you for all those years. it's not relative to whether you experienced that but rather to your subjectively held feelings about it regardless of having technically experienced it... some people it's poverty that upsets them, others were poor as fuck but happy because they had a sense of community... some people get traumatized by work but others find it elevating because they had a sense of accomplishment from the work... all sorts of people work but only some find it fulfilling... it all depends on your innate socialization in your earliest years, your relation to your parents, friends and other family...

in general, experience is only the light that runs through the prism of your personality, if that prism is damaged or made imperfect in some way, then the experiences passing through it will be similarly disfigured.