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6/23/2025, 2:31:50 AM
Fuck it the thread is already in the dump so I'll sperg out
You know what this behavior reminds me of? Bear with me here cause this is gonna be odd, but I have some history studying domestic abuse cases, and a very common form of emotional manipulation is extremely eerily similar to what this person is doing, we mostly see it with women who have disorders like Borderline or bipolar, cluster B stuff, occasionally men too... Basically they get their partner to get angry at them and then try and gaslight them into thinking they have an anger problem. They'll poke them, subtly demand things from them they know go against their boundaries, make jabs at family members or their career, do it constantly until the person snaps and finally shouts back or something... And then the abuser will act out like they're being unjustly, and for no reason, yelled at. They'll usually go saying stuff like "Whaaaat? What are you so angry about? it's like, so weird you're getting upset right now, like you have a problem, I just don't understand? Why do you do this?" and force them to apologize or buy them stuff to show they're sorry, and the cycle will start again. With many of them it's simply a desire for attention, or they start doing it after their own personal wrongdoings are discovered like cheating on their partner.
It's not something most people notice at first but being in this industry I've become attuned to it and I never thought I'd see it on some randy on the 4chins, but here we are.
Anyway thanks for coming to my blog.
You know what this behavior reminds me of? Bear with me here cause this is gonna be odd, but I have some history studying domestic abuse cases, and a very common form of emotional manipulation is extremely eerily similar to what this person is doing, we mostly see it with women who have disorders like Borderline or bipolar, cluster B stuff, occasionally men too... Basically they get their partner to get angry at them and then try and gaslight them into thinking they have an anger problem. They'll poke them, subtly demand things from them they know go against their boundaries, make jabs at family members or their career, do it constantly until the person snaps and finally shouts back or something... And then the abuser will act out like they're being unjustly, and for no reason, yelled at. They'll usually go saying stuff like "Whaaaat? What are you so angry about? it's like, so weird you're getting upset right now, like you have a problem, I just don't understand? Why do you do this?" and force them to apologize or buy them stuff to show they're sorry, and the cycle will start again. With many of them it's simply a desire for attention, or they start doing it after their own personal wrongdoings are discovered like cheating on their partner.
It's not something most people notice at first but being in this industry I've become attuned to it and I never thought I'd see it on some randy on the 4chins, but here we are.
Anyway thanks for coming to my blog.
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