>>40140128
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>I don't really know how they do it then.
I have a ton of intrusive thoughts and anxieties which I can only combat through letting myself be reassured, yeah.
>I'm doing pretty well on my own methinks... Why should I invite trouble into my life?
Other people are both motivator and emotional counter balance. Yes there is stress involved but, trust me, the deal you are currently envisioning is the kind of thing that people can do in their 20s, and it is a really fucking sweet deal initially. But the misery lingers, and it festers. It's fundamentally unsustainable sadly.
>I am just so tired of thinking about my life and my future... that's why I'm mostly focusing on my family right now.
Hey, I can relate on that front. But it also means that we might be more alike in that regard even. I am not as much a career person as I thought I was. That is a very people person thing to say. You have many interests, typical for people with a varied set of talents and a curious mind. You know what makes subjects exciting to me, often? Someone else's passion. If someone tells you of something with that sparkle in their eyes. You just wanna be part of it even if it's not your subject. Oh and if it is, It's a special treat.
>>40141281
You intrigue me, Anon.
>>40147783
>8kg in 2 months seems possible enough,
Please, for the sake of sustainability long term, consider stretching that to 4 months. One, it will make the process easier and two it means you hardly have to change your diet once you reached your target weight.
>>40148503
What led you to this conclusion? Have we talked before, Anon?
>>40148573
Okay, I will do my best to infer.
Take all the time you need, Anon. I am not going anywhere. I'm happy my mode of conversation seems to be good for you!