>>40031748
>Also, but a straight white guy most of my life I'm not really used to being included in umbrellas
>More of a scapegoat for most peoples problems while my own problems get ignored if I'm being honest
the biggest issue with current identity politics, is you're only taken seriously as someone higher on the victim tier list
you as a white cis het guy, are victim ranking 100
I get why that hurts a lot, it's what alienates so many men and creates this fukin vibe of
>men saying; men have it worse
>women saying; all men suck

>even though I've never mistreated anyone in my life
and that's the stinger, till people know you, you can't show that you're a decent human, but you can't know people cos you get stuck at the gate
I get why you're mad, me and bf had a convo like last week about how feminism is using terms that are too misandrist, and it causes men to be kicked from the conversation, cos if you see a group of women talking about patriarchy and assume that means they hate you, it creates a barrier before you even actually talk, and even tho patriarchy has a textbook definition of the men in power, not just "all dudes"
but that's hard to take as a dude xd

>there's a possibility I'm straight and just that desperate from crippling loneliness
this is also fine bttw
you are allowed to be lonely, and also bi, cos most people in your position just become incels instead of considering trying dudes
>seems like a humiliating concept
but that'll take a long time of getting over internalised shit to be truly comfy with