I struggled with admitting I liked guys earlier in life. Fortunately college really opened up my sexuality and I became kind of an equal opportunity sexor, but swung towards guys most often. Sexuality is just what you make it, the labels everyone tries to give everything is pretty much just a bunch of bullshit, really. As soon as I accepted that, things became a lot easier. I can say that >>42332845 is absolutely right when mentioning that you can fall into love unexpectedly. It certainly happened that way for me! To all the anons that think you'll forever be alone, don't relegate yourself to that mindset! Put in genuine effort! You can exercise quite a bit of control in your life if you set your mind to it!