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>I want her to be my own personal pornstar and fuck other guys
No sane man anywhere thinks this. It's not even common among insane ones. Overwhelmingly men want their girl to only be for them. There is a reason the fantastical ideal is "woman who is simultaneously good in bed but also a virgin" and not "girl I sit in a corner and watch as she gets railed by half a town".
>If I spend enough money and time on her she'll stop being a bad bitch
I can fix her/him however is a universal thing. Male, female, doesn't matter. Fixing someone is a common fantasy.
>It doesnt matter if shes married and her current guy has a gun I can still fuck and fix her
This one is more about dominance over the other dude than the girl itself.
>Shes gotta be hot but lack any sort of drive to care about socializing or outward appearances
Ties back into the fantasy ideal girl I mentioned earlier. Why stop at a sexy virgin who can knock your socks off? Make her never talk to anyone other than (you) too. No chance of having offspring that isn't your own that way. It plays into man's primal instincts.
>She talked to me, that must means I have a CHANCE even thought ive already been turned down before
You lose 100% of shots you don't take. And most men these days are so affection starved that merely being nice to them is enough for them to take that shot.