Why does every potential partner suck

They're either dumb, boring or unfunny and I literally can't find anyone I don't actively dislike

I've been on 3 dates in the past 2 months and have turned each of them down after because everyone is shit and dealing with their nervous flirty energy makes me want to blow my brains out

And don't get me started on dating apps, everyone is either overly horny or boring on them

I know I sound really toxic but I'm just so tired of everyone right now, maybe I'm depressed or something but I need someone who can make me laugh