Do you believe they can commune with the dead? If you do, do you think there's a limit to what the afterlife is allowed to say? For example if your gamily goes to one are they just allowed to out you and give messages saying "he needs to stop gooing, he jerks off to renamon from a japanese cartoon called digimon" or does it have to be super vague like "your family member is struggling with addiction"? If they divulge too much does it cross some kind of code that isn't allowed?