for me the darkest realization was when i personally doxed tamers, glimmy, hugh, wykkyd, a sea bear, and come on out you rapist, and discovered that all of them were born between 1993 and 1995. i don't think any of you understand how terrifying it is realizing that if they had been closer to each other (tamers is in kansas, glimmy's in florida, hugh's in georgia, etc.) they would've been going to the same school and all been in the same friend group.