I have 2 friends in total.
After my friend of 15 years ghosted me( did not expect that in the slightest) and one of my 2 friends moved cities cause of work i thought i need to reach out to some of my old acquintances since this is getting dangerously lonely. One of them ghosted me after he sent me his phone number and i messaged him on his phone. Admittedly he messaged me half a year ago but i didnt respond cause i was kinda scared of meeting him cause he is kind of mentally ill, amoral and comes from a messed up family. I did message him after my friend left the city cause i was desperate but yeah he ignored me. The other one also sent me his phone number and he didnt respond to my latest message for 2 days now.
I really dont know why this is happening, im always a good friend to everyone and i never abuse friendships or people
But like my dad said, maybe they hang out with people out of interest, and for friendship part they already got that covered with others. Normal people lead busy lives and they probably dont care that much about hanging with me cause they think that they cant gain anything out of it