.. im a 35 year old male, been with the same girl for 15 years.. we have sex like once a month sometimes every 2 months... it drives me fucking insane.. always innnitiated by me.. ive gotten to the point where i am just going to start not making the move... is this normal? can people actually go through life not giving a fuck for giving a fuck? i have started thinking if theres something wrong with me, doubting myself... or is it just that some women just cant care that men need this? i dont know... porn will have to do while i figure shit out.