This thread just reminded me of a social media couple I saw where the wife is secretly getting fed up with her husband. She married and had children with a full blown autistic nerd who'd be absolutely worthless if he didn't have a stay at home tech job. You can see her mental state deteriorate over the years from playful ribbing of his quirks to bubbling resent. He gets 7 hours a day 5 days of week of being a provider adult, the rest is spent being one of the kids.