> “I tell men, ‘Throw me around, destroy me, spit on me, slap me … I want you to make a mess of me.’ ” I say such porn has made men think that choking women during sex — a sometimes lethal act — is normal. “If I went on a first date, I’d want him to choke me,” she says. “
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