>>149635831
as a young man, i think yes, i'd prefer to have hair (i already have nice hair), but that is a byproduct of expectations and social pressure that we cannot shake off and that, unfortunately, we also contribute to (see the other guys above). this does not necessarily mean that we should continue to care, because age will take our hair away, as well as many other things, and we have no control over time, so what can we do? maybe shift our mindset towards practicality rather than beauty (this, of course, does not mean that we ignore the latter, they usually complement each other).

in short, we will be unable to keep up with vanities anyway, so why not get rid of them now?

i have lost the will to continue the discussion, but you seem to be alright, so i will point you to a more in-depth material from which you can draw your own conclusions about what i am trying to convey here; read Kant's "observations on the feeling of the beautiful and sublime and other writings", theres a short section on the sexes there that every man should read.