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6/29/2025, 1:43:39 PM
>>33273596
I read your entire thing and it just sounds like typical BPD to me.
You did not go about the correct way to handle this, but as you said you only recently researched what BPD is like so you couldn't have known. You did nothing wrong as you took what she said seriously and didn't assume that there were multiple hidden layers to her words/behaviour (keep in mind I only have your side of the story, of course).
There is a right way to handle BPD partners but it's really, really not worth it. Even if you manage to get something stable going, there is a high likelihood she will have an episode and cheat on you or kill your cat or slash your mom's tires or some shit.
I feel bad for BPD people regarding their romantic lives and I have nothing against them, but unless they're committed to meds and therapy, they are not worth investing in as romantic partners.
I read your entire thing and it just sounds like typical BPD to me.
You did not go about the correct way to handle this, but as you said you only recently researched what BPD is like so you couldn't have known. You did nothing wrong as you took what she said seriously and didn't assume that there were multiple hidden layers to her words/behaviour (keep in mind I only have your side of the story, of course).
There is a right way to handle BPD partners but it's really, really not worth it. Even if you manage to get something stable going, there is a high likelihood she will have an episode and cheat on you or kill your cat or slash your mom's tires or some shit.
I feel bad for BPD people regarding their romantic lives and I have nothing against them, but unless they're committed to meds and therapy, they are not worth investing in as romantic partners.
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