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7/25/2025, 10:12:15 AM
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But anon made no claims about Jax being a good or bad person.
I think they're right that Jax likes Gangle, tries to be somewhat soft on her, and maybe even sometimes deludes himself into thinking she enjoys being the buttmonkey center of his horrid attention and self-serving comedy shticks.
I think the more constructive way of dealing with toxicity is recognizing and acknowledging fondness, instead of thinking in black and white. If you don't, any gentle behavior or anything that doesn't line up with your idea of a bad person will be more likely to throw you off, deflate your conviction, and pull you back to them. The goal is to not be so desperate to be liked or included that you'll tolerate shitty treatment.
Which is why Jax might actually be right that she likes it. Gangle is a very very sad and lonely girl. And this is why Zooble and Pomni stepping up to show her that she's liked while also treating her well is so important.
But anon made no claims about Jax being a good or bad person.
I think they're right that Jax likes Gangle, tries to be somewhat soft on her, and maybe even sometimes deludes himself into thinking she enjoys being the buttmonkey center of his horrid attention and self-serving comedy shticks.
I think the more constructive way of dealing with toxicity is recognizing and acknowledging fondness, instead of thinking in black and white. If you don't, any gentle behavior or anything that doesn't line up with your idea of a bad person will be more likely to throw you off, deflate your conviction, and pull you back to them. The goal is to not be so desperate to be liked or included that you'll tolerate shitty treatment.
Which is why Jax might actually be right that she likes it. Gangle is a very very sad and lonely girl. And this is why Zooble and Pomni stepping up to show her that she's liked while also treating her well is so important.
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