>present myself on grindr as a caged up sissy
>mostly get trash messages and awful dick pics
>get a message from a guy
>he's confident and charming
>muscular, hairy, nice cock
>go to his place
>he takes control
>fucks me hard
>takes control, orders me around
>feel like a sex toy
>leak out of my cage a lot

Holy shit it feels so good to just give in and let someone take control, no stress, no worries about not being able to get hard or cum, just being an obedient sissy sex toy. I understand what women mean when they say they want a 'real' man, so many guys are just way too timid and unwilling to actually be dominant.