The thread for posting pictures, experiences, and adventures around chastity devices.
Both male and female chastity welcome. The more images the better!
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Chastity kind of doesn't work for me. :(
I have a small pp and the top of the cage just kind of slipped off my peepee when I tried it years ago :c
Took a chance on a few cheap cages on Amazon and I have a new favorite. Looks like picrel. https://www.amazon.com/dp/B0D63HQRTK
Only $16 but way better than the expensive Holy Trainer I've been using up to now. I've gone through like 10 cages by now and this is surprisingly the best I've found.
It's the most comfortable cage I've tried. Doesn't hurt even when I get hard, and no pain to the underside of my balls which has always been a problem for me in the past. Comfortable to sleep in too.
No need for hygiene unlocks. My Holy Trainer always got gross after a few days, but this one is nice and open. So I can stay locked perpetually. And I can use my dick right away if I take it off. Don't have to wash first.
I can just barely stimulate myself through the cage, just enough to tease but not cum which is perfect.
Biggest downside is it's not very aesthetic.
Also found an anti-pullout device that looks compatible with it, but it hasn't arrived yet. Not sure if it will work or if it will be too painful to bother with. If it works then I'll have finally reached the dream. An inescapable comfortable cage I can wear indefinitely.
>>11298358have you tried getting a flat / inverted cage?
Anyone else quite fond of when artists and writers have a softer take on chastity? Not treating it like it's a punishment or a humiliating thing, just a cute accessory that makes the subject in question look cuter and focus on comming with their nipples and prostate instead? I also think it's rare to find artists who don't make the character completely mind broken or frustrated when wearing one but that might be because of the general consensus that it's supposed to be a humiliating and degrading thing when it doesn't have to be! Feeling full and tucked nicely in a cage while being feminized and plowed should be celebrated.
>>11298594Personally I like a mix of the two or one leading to another, the subject being reluctant and resentful at first but enjoying chastity and feminisation more and more as the process continues until they learn to accept it and become happy and carefree
If a cage is fine to wear until the 4th to 7th day, then it starts feeling sore to the touch, is that just getting used to the cage or is something wrong?
>>11298644What exactly feels sore to the touch? You might not be cleaning it often enough, could be chafing on something or your skin could be reacting to the material the cage is made from. If you're feeling pain or unfun discomfort you should take it off
>>11298646Mainly around where the ring is kinda the same way a bruise feels but there's no bruising and it stops hurting a half a day or so of not wearing it
>>11298650The ring might be too small or it might be chafing as you move around, a bigger ring and/or a strap would probably help, maybe some talcum powder on the affected area next time you take it off for cleaning
>>11298658Alright, i have a strap already, ill keep that in mind because im already using the biggest ring i can find, and i can slip out of it as it is
>>11298666honestly in that case it might be you need smaller ring! It's hard to say without seeing it in person. If you've been getting hyper aroused and straining against it every day that might affect it too
>>11298672Alright i'll see if i can even fit in the smaller one and then lose weight if i cant
Cages for good long term use, when you are uncut and don't have a piercing.
Ideally so I can leave my key with someone, and go about my life for a week or two before having to meet them again for a cleaning.
is it normal to not get any erections for a period after wearing chastity?
Anyone know the artist's name? Having trouble reading cursive
>>11298818Art style looks like "Morino Bambi"
>>11298758Also interested in this since I'm two weeks in and still getting woken by my morning wood straining against my cage every morning
then again I'm starting hrt soon so hopefully that'll take care of it
>>11298651>>11298818>>11298958I hate how popular the salt shaker has become in chastity porn.
It's easy to draw I guess, but it's a pretty terrible cage design. Trivially easy to pull out of.
>>11298958Need moral support?
It was recently my birthday (I can legally buy booze now, which I definitely need), and my ex sent me flowers and chocolate with a card. The card said "Iโve been thinking about you a lotโฆ and I'm sorry. I wasnโt listening to what you needed, I was too focused on what I wanted rather than what you were telling me, and I regret that. I wonโt try to reach out again, give you the space you need, but if you call me, I'll answer."
I haven't talked to her in almost 2 months, but I miss her and kind of want to get back together. Long story short of it is, she's my first girlfriend, she got me into chastity, we've been dating for a couple years, recently she'd been wanting me to get fucked by a man, and we had an argument about it. She was hinting at it, making references to it while we had sex, we'd watch porn where that was a feature, she'd point out 'cute men,' etc. I don't find men attractive, and the idea of being with another man makes me uncomfortable, so I'd been hinting back that I wasn't interested, before finally flatly telling her I wasn't attracted to men and asking her to stop. She did, for about a month? and then she started again, so I blew up on her. I called her out for not respecting boundaries, and told her I needed time to cool off, or that we were done, or something like that when I left. Anger makes it hard to remember, I just remember me yelling, a lot, and leaving.
I don't have much experience with relationships; literally just her, so I don't know if I should I just keep pretending like she doesn't exist, or if I should call her like she asked me to. I know 4chan is among the worst possible places to ask for relationship advice, but considering the nature of the argument I'm not comfortable really asking anywhere else. I mean, an AI maybe, but... I don't trust that.
>>11299060You should definitely get back together with her.
1. She's a fucking catch if she got you into chastity.
2. Seems to me like you overreacted to her fairly minor infraction of your boundaries.
3. She's being understanding and apologetic about the whole thing.
4. You miss her and want to get back together anyways.
Relationships require compromise and have fights sometimes. Gotta work through them.
As long as she takes "no" for an answer I think you can put up with her talking about her interests now and then.
>>11299060I'll be honest, I don't find guys attractive, and can't imagine sucking cock or being fucked by a guy (definitely would love to be pegged by a girl though!). But she shoulds like a catch and I'm so desperate I would totally take her up on it.
You're not doing it because you're attracted to men, you're doing it because you're a cuck in chastity. Your pleasure is her pleasure.
>>11298747Bump for an answer
>>112990604chan is not the best place for advice, however, I am married to a woman now but when i was in my earlier 20's i experimented with guys a little out of lonliness and wish i did more. Your still young so experiment a little but make sure you do things on your terms and find a decent enough willing guy unless you truly are a cuck then experiment safely. This girl seems like a catch and may be worth it at least for some young fun. I bother my wife about pegging me even though it annoys her. I hope she changes her mind someday.
>>11299060How do you know until you try it?
>>11299060I think you should at least give her another chance. There aren't many girls into chastity so you've got yourself a unicorn right there.
The most important thing you should do is ask yourself if you were happy with the relationship apart from the innapropiate comments she made. If you were, then just talk to her, tell her about your limits and be honest with the things you are actually into. She seems interested in talking things so she will probably be ok with respecting your limits this time.
>>11299076>>11299093>>11299122Thanks for the advice and analysis, it's just... I don't really feel comfortable with the idea of getting with a man. Like, I can see porn of it, no problem, or talk about other people doing it, no problem, the moment I imagine myself doing it, I just can't handle it. I just want to start shouting, or running away, or something to end the discussion or leave the situation.
>>11299135I mean, yeah, the relationship was great. We have similar hobbies, she's actually taken in interest in some of mine now, the same taste in music. Hell, the usual romantic complaints I see in sitcoms and stuff, not getting along with friends, doesn't apply; she got along well with all my friends, and they with her. Our biggest argument until now was the fact she drove like a psychopath. It's just, I'd made my stance clear on the matter, set a hard boundary, and she pushed across it.
I think I'm gonna go drink some of the vodka I got for my birthday and get off for the night; if it seems like a good idea, I might call her tomorrow, see where we stand.
>>11298991>Trivially easy to pull out of.who cares, they're hot and comfy just get a strap
t. typing this with one strapped and locked on
>>11299060dont get back with her, bitch. shes gunna do it again. stay away, i command it.
i recently bought an overpriced cage (the cellmate chastity cage, size 0). it is a considerable upgrade to the piece of shit metal cage i had before. I have been gradually increasing the time i spend wearing it. i plan to sleep in it tonight. any tips for my first night sleeping in chastity? also any tips for long term wear generally? im not too concerned with morning wood, ive been on hrt for an extended period and very rarely wake up hard.
>>11299060Don't do it, you'll regret it.
>>11299060FDB
Find someone who doesn't need you to change to be satisfied.
>>11299155It sounds pretty simple but also like something you've gone through before, you already drew the line at bringing in another man and she still tried to push it, so maybe you get back together with her and the whole thing just happens again so what was the point in wasting your time?
You either need to open up and at least give experimenting with it a try (which doesn't seem like an option) or sit her down and draw a definite solid line over it and make it clear if she tries to cross it again it's over for good.
Sexually compatibility is an important part of a relationship and it must sting to have someone who's so close to being perfect.
>>11299056Sure, I've come out to most of my friends and they're really supportive but validation from perverts on the internet is also nice
>>11299252you're going to have a bad night's sleep for a while until you get used to it, a harness can help and I wouldn't necessarily discount morning wood when you combine it with being backed up from being locked
>>11298747see
>>11298435This is the best cage I've found for long term wear since it's the most comfortable and doesn't require hygiene unlocks. Probably pretty good for an uncut person since you can get your fingers through the bars to manipulate your dick a bit. Pull the foreskin back for cleaning and such.
Without a piercing it's fairly easy to slip out of the top part, but that's true of every cage. The anti-pullout device I mentioned in that comment didn't work out.
>>11299422why the fuck would I take advice from someone proposing cheap amazon shit and posting AI slop, you live a second class, inauthentic life
>>11299407this is a hot pic.
ive been wondering about getting a strap. i was like tieing the cage closer to my body with a shoelace but i have found the cage more comfortable without a strap honestly.
also i just woke up from like 4 and a half hours of sleep. i kept brainwashing on the whole time and now i dont want to turn it off. i might take a bathroom break and then just watch porn and brainwashing to keep myself frustrated before work
>>11299423Because I've tried expensive $100 cages too.
I never expected cheap amazon shit to be my favorite. I was very surprised by that. There are probably more expensive cages with a similar design if you're worried about quality.
And cool it with the hostility. Just trying to be helpful.
>>11299426I'll tell you know if you keep gooning you're going to have worse sleep and probably get blue balls. It's a lot of fun but it does have consequences.
>>11299428thank you for the warning. I think part of the fun is the desperation though honestly. like i wouldnt be wearing a chastity cage if i didnt want a little bit of horny discomfort haha.
>>11299432Yeah frustration and desperation is all well and good but I hate getting blue balls, although that would probably change if I had a regular keyholder to tease me about it
>>11299060If she can't be satisfied with you not being bisexual it will create a small but constant friction because you're not exactly what she needs.
If it's just a simple fantasy she'll get over it and the main issue was a lack of respecting your boundaries.
This kink includes a lot of pretending to ignore boundaries but at the end of the day the people involved are still adults who need to be equals that respect each other's boundaries.
>>11299492i wish i could find a regular keyholder as well desu.
also does anyone have experience like working out with a cage on? im thinking i will just continue taking it off before heading to the gym, but was curious what other ppl do
>>11299432Based horny enjoyer. I wear a cage just to be horny more often. Just the extra barrier is enough to deter me for a week. Also keeping others permahorny is hot as hell.
>>11299544I mainly do shit like pilates and body weight stuff so I take my cage off since it limits mobility
>>11299426Oh? What kind of brainwashing? Willing to drop a link? :3c
>>11299556i need to be kept permahorny desu. im considering like dialing back my estrogen dose just in the hopes of boosting my sex drive with testosterone, so that the cage will be more frustrating >_<
>>11299675is it okay to post links to videos here? im especially worried because it is not 2d and some of the videos are embarrassing.
>>11299698Embarrassing? Hardly, where do you think you are right now? If anything itโll just be even more hot :3 That said, if youโre that worried you could always post on cbg in trash
>>11299698I haven't touched my cock in a month, just concentrating on my boipuss... talk about being permahorny...
>>11299060>>11299155Assuming true story: after a girl has locked you away it's a bit late for a closet rage. Not saying you should go along with the idea, but a confident manly man could have maintained his cool while handling the situation.You should learn too.
COOMER OFF: whatever glimpses of situation are there, they reek of cluster B. Attempt repairs at your own peril.
Got a cage last week and feel comfortable wearing it. I've always been excited to post one of these
https://chaster.app/sessions/GOhaS2NCOeamvwhN
what's the longest you've been in chastity? I've just passed 2 weeks for the first time and I'm going to stay that way for at least 2 more though at this point it really feels like it should be forever
>>11300007100 days, but generally between a month or two. I was cumming for a minute straight.
>>11294482Here.
>>11299155Last update on this, unless things go poorly: I called her, we talked, she apologized, I apologized. We're meeting up for coffee tomorrow, see where we stand in a face-to-face conversation.
>>11300007Straight, without any unlocking at all? 7 days. Where the cage only came off for hygiene/travel/health reasons, not for a sexual purpose? 5 weeks.
>find a nice dildo on amazon for 20$
>estimated 18$ for shipping and tax
>hmmmm fine its doable
>proceed to checkout
>since i dont live in the us i gotta pay 65$
for FUCK sake
do anyone have any good eu sites for double layered silicone dildos?
>>11300179hmm, i guess its slightly better on the shipping costs & no import fees. Found a ish same one originally and total would be 50$
but honestly im strongly considering temu, very satisfied with earlier purchases from there (chastity cages & different crossdressing outfits). Which would be like a 3rd of the price
I got memed into buying this thing and holy shit itโs covered in black metal dust. Inside the cavity thereโs straight up grit that doesnโt fully come off. The inside of one of the slots on the ring has a flaked off part and the material underneath looks rusted. I see you guys worrying about side effects of HRT on here when you should be worrying about metal poisoning
>>11300269This is why I buy plastic. Got plenty of it in me already, whatโs a little more?
>>11300007im on my longest time locked right now at a bit under the 36 hours. planning to stay caged until tomorrow morning still i think.
also, i love gooning while caged. i know lots of ppl start focusing on their ass when they are locked, but i love putting a vibe on my cage and assulting my brain with degrading porn and brainwashing until im straining and aching.
>>11300007>>11300021>>11300023how do you longterm chastity users deal with peeing? I tried a catheter for the first time last week and it just hurt an insane amount trying to insert it. Do i need a very small tube or is it normal to hurt the first time and u just get used to it?(i got a very small dick)
Also, why does every chastity cage catheter come with a metal part on both ends? do i really want a metal end to be all the way inside my urine bladder?
>>11300436>also, i love gooning while caged. i know lots of ppl start focusing on their ass when they are locked, but i love putting a vibe on my cage and assulting my brain with degrading porn and brainwashing until im straining and aching.literally me, but i use a microbullet vibrator inside my flat cage, buttplug and just play with my nipples while gooning watching vids in a VR headset. Its fucking amazing
>>11300489Back then I was wearing one of these cages. I just sat down and angled the cage down as well as pulled my balls back so not as much piss would land on them. Then it's just wipe it with toilet paper and fold up one square to wedge it between the cage and balls to catch up later drips which always happen with these smaller cages. If you feel like it's still too dirty, you can give it a rinse afterwards if you have an open cage.
>>11299060last time i read the most You'd post in a thread. sound your caged dick for ruining my horniness with your life problems. honestly i hope she is a predatory fujo. you would deserve to get baby reindeered for putting this boner-killing nonsense here. goddamn it
>>11298358>Chastity kind of doesn't work for me. :(I have a small pp and the top of the cage just kind of slipped off my peepee when I tried it years ago :c
get this
https://share.temu.com/BlUiC3skSlA
fellow small pp and out of 5 different cages holy this is so comfy, the belt makes it stay nice and snug also so you wont slip out~
>>11299060don't let these horny losers talk you into shit you don't want to do
you don't like men. that's all there is to know, no further discussion required. do not give people who won't respect your boundaries any consideration. you are the only master of your fetishes and proclivities. roleplay is roleplay, the ground rules are to be set by your rational mind, and EVRYBODY included has to play by these rules, no exceptions.
>>11300527>you would deserve to get baby reindeered for putting this boner-killing nonsense here>boner killingwhere do you think you are
>>11299060>Long story short of it is, she's my first girlfriend, she got me into chastity, we've been dating for a couple years, recently she'd been wanting me to get fucked by a man, and we had an argument about it.God, you're living the dream, you faggot, and you fucking whine about it. You clearly don't deserve her.
>>11298351>657 daysNigga took that thing off long ago lmao
>>11299556That key is a CH751. You can buy them for dirt cheap. Source: https://youtu.be/a9b9IYqsb_U
Any chance you'd help me lose control of how public my chaster link is? It's unrestricted so anyone can add time every 24 hours. Feel free to share it and make it as public as you want. https://chaster.app/sessions/4EZkCOtgPRuG72ji
>>11300269just wash it off, what's the worst that could happen?
>>11300739Not everyone into chastity is a fag (real) anon
>>11300489>how do you longterm chastity users deal with peeing?What do you mean? You just sit down and pee. You don't need a catheter. If you're worried about hygiene then get a metal cage with bars so it's more open and easy to clean.
And I strongly advise against catheters anyways. They're very painful as you've experienced and dangerous as they can fuck up your urinary tract.
Oh, and I usually use a square of TP after peeing to clean up a little.
newfag retard here
I wanna try one of those tiny salt shaker style cages, but I have no balls so it'll have to be a belt, do they exist and are they comfortable?
>>11301577yeah i should've clarified sorry. Was asking the question with flat cages in mind. I love the feel of flat cages but cant pee with them at all haha, might need to look for something else if i want to get into longterm chastity though
>>11301578Eh, sorta? The belts are usually sold as separate attachments rather than bundled with, and you can easily find them on amazon and aliexpress and such. Just gotta look really.
Also how did you loose your balls?
snake
md5: 6ee51d9cb50f1a328c06d7192b1669c0
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>>11298351https://chaster.app/sessions/0zwfpPJYZR7o3dKe
Please vote for me however you'd like to!
>>11301793>Click to add 1 day>Adds 1 minuteWhat's going on?
>>11301797something broke in the program extension but I think it's working right now
>>11301793>>11301815Added a day, def working
Hope you have a long and frustrating session anon!
>>11299060Anon. As much as you miss her, and as hot as the fetish may be
If she was constantly and repeatedly pushing your boundaries that you asserted
You need to address that before getting back together with her.
If you aren't comfortable being fucked by a man,
Then don't.
Maybe she can peg you or do a roleplay, sure
But you could seriously have some trauma if you don't have a good experience being fucked by a dude,
And if she isn't 100% in your corner this relationship is doomed.
Are there any sexual things you've asked of her that she wasn't comfortable with?
Every relationship needs compromise
But opening yourself to bring fucked up the ass by men when you said you aren't attracted to men isn't fair.
I almost committed suicide after the breakup with my last ex and the "getting back together" part didn't work out.
But a year and a half later and I can finally say I'm better,
It does get better.
Look after yourself anon, we're all flawed people and she might have her own boundary issues and trauma.
But you may be better off on your own, and you definitely can meet another girl who's into your kinks that respects your boundaries.
My current gf loves chastity, my ex didn't.
https://chaster.app/sessions/Q7POYSMwbQsB6Xp8
Please vote
>>11300489Sounding hurts when you first do it. You have to train your hole just like with your ass. Also, by sterilizing lube, also known as surgical lube.
Please have mercy
https://chaster.app/sessions/5kV0dl4RiPwOBVxf
>>11298991While the saltshaker is good, one can do so much more with the flat plate.
At least give it some texture or pattern!
>>11299060You literally could have had it all and gave it up. You'll go back.
Men are attractive, everyone is bisexual.
>>11300152why not compromise and let her fuck you with a dildo?
>>11298351imo if the timer is >30 days and they aint doing public verification it shouldn't be on the list.
>>11301577>>11301582Seconding the catheter part. It doesn't really do anything to feel good anyway.
I tried quite a few, and even the thinnest, softest silicone catheter (no bigger than a thick string) was super uncomfortable when I put anything in my butt. Almost painful even, and would cause internal inflammation that lasts for 2-3 days.
What i found works *okay* is a very short (maybe 2 inches) soft silicone tube to keep everything in place. I made my own by cutting down a medical catheter, and it doesn't much, and helps keep the urine flowing where it needs to, instead of pressurizing behind the cage and squirting like a sprinkler.
I found this great short manga with two people getting together to cheat on their SOs... or at least, as much as is possible while you're locked in a chastity belt.
I'd really like to see a proper English typeset, it is one of the hottest things I've read in a while. There's probably 30 pages including sketches and spinoffs, this is one where they're just bonding:
>Yeah, yeah, I get it.
>So, with your chastity belt on, how do you even deal with the bathroom?
>Gotta use a stall, no other wayโฆ
>Itโd be bad if someone saw, you knowโฆ
>Gotcha~
>I have a bit of a hassle with the bathroom too, these thighbands are no jokeโฆ
>I can only wear skirts with them on.
>And in a short skirt, Iโm, like, super aware of everyoneโs staresโฆ itโs kinda thrillingโฆ
>Whoaโฆ
>That's gotta keep you on edge...
I wanted to post this in the female chastity thread, which one would like couples chastity better?
>>11302179Do the thigh bands have an actual purpose in aiding the chastity part?
>which one would like couples chastity better?This thread.
>>11302179This thread is technically gender agnostic so I guess it belongs here, sounds really cute actually
>>11299060Should have had her tie you up, blindfold you, and peg you to glorious analgasms regularly
And then just tell her she can arrange for a dude to tag in while you're tied and blindfolded but she can't tell you when it happens
Everyone wins, especially you since you get to cum your brains out on the regular
>>11301944Just cause you're a kys contemplating loser doesn't mean everyone else is
>>11298351https://chaster.app/sessions/4EZkCOtgPRuG72ji
He wants to lose control
Bought a magic wand style vibrator and I still canโt cum in chastity
Iโll keep trying tho
>>11302354At least now you can tease/edge yourself indefinitely
>>11302354Time for the anal fuck machine my brother
>>11301944>>11302117>>11302267Thanks for the advice, but pegging was what we already did normally.
And as per
>>11300152, we're back together now, mostly, so I don't need any more advice. I have my boundaries and I'm sticking to them, if she crosses them again I'm done for good. I'm just glad she doesn't use 4chan because that would have made Saturday really awkward.
>>11302354good :3
how long have you been caged?
>>11302426You'll be begging her for it eventually
>>11302426She finna peg the gay into you til you beg for dick
>>11302354Try pressing it firmly into the front of your pubes, thereโs a cluster of nerves. Iโm surprised vibrators for guys havenโt caught on.
>>11302426Glad you actually took the sensible route instead of listening to lonely cum-brained retards on here, hope it works out for you man
>>11302354That's crazy, I've got a comparatively weak anal vibrator and even with that I just need press it against my cage for less than a minute and I cum hard, it's so easy I have to stop myself from doing it do I can concentrate on training my prostate instead. It could be a cut vs uncut thing actually
One month in chastity... and here I am, just bought my first fuck machine.
>>11302516Out of curiosity are you uncut? I get nearly zero stimulation when using a vibrator on my cage but now(after experimenting) a vibe in between my legs at a steady pace has me leaking like crazy. Kinda related. Ive been locked for almost 23 days minus cleaning and havent been able to cum from anal or anything ive tried. Ill take any suggestions that im offered right now.
>>11299807I maybe wanna try it too.
How is it?
>>11302638Will find out soon enough.
>>11302426as long as you're happy, anon, that's what matters. just make sure you still stand up for yourself if need be, and remember that you're young. if it doesn't work out, then there are plenty of fish in the sea, and you'll be able to find someone who will treat you as you deserve to be treated. best of luck!
>>11298351https://chaster.app/sessions/W79w2MGC5pNZPDWa
>>11302179yeaa that chastity couple is the best... 6 digit number is 525397... the artist has a few extra? teaser? pages on his pixiv as well.
really surprised it hasn't been translated yet... but you seem to be able to read it?
ill tell you what, i know my way around image editing enough, and you seem to know enough Japanese, if you make a pastebin or something of the translation, ill typeset it.
>>11300939ehhhh you'd be surprised, lots of people here are at 2+ years
>>11300269I also bought one and think the quality is good. I had none of the issues you described. (BTW: 50 inner ring size is 51-52mm)
It's not easy for me to put it on though as my dick thinks otherwise when I get near it.
Also, I have a bulge when I manage to shove my dick back... I guess that's normal, but I never see that on illustrations or something. I guess the meat has to go somewhere.
(My dick is about 19cm erected, so that's an issue...)
>>11302614Yeah I'm uncut, so the tip of my dick is pretty sensitive even flaccid and through the cage, I've been getting better at prostate play tho
>>11298349 (OP)Is alcohol + chastity + assfucking a good idea? If booze already gives you whiskey dick, might as well give it a shot?
>>11298349 (OP)Walking around outdoors locked up, in panties and in a bra is surprisingly natural. I forget what I'm even equipped with in minutes.
>>11302836>is drunk sex a good ideagee whizz I don't know
>>11299060Move on. It's not a good idea getting back with exes. Yeah, it's true her being into chastity is rare and a plus, but using a kink as justification to rekindle an entire relationship is an awful, awful idea. You can go to bars/clubs legally now, go find someone new. Chastity rules but real connections are far more important.
>>11302844I actually like drunk sex. If you don't have an answer, you don't have to talk.
>>11302848it's just a dumb fucking question, why would it be any different with chastity? What is the question hoping to find?
>>11301624Oh okay thank you anon!
>How did yeu lose your ballsI paid a surgeon to do it
>>11302862>thinking alcohol has no effectRetard
>>11302895you are lacking middle school level reading comprehension skills
>>11302865probably a dumb question but im genuinely curious
with no balls, you're not getting it for denial are you?
Don't forget about your nipples when in chastity!
There's a reason males also have them -- they feel amazing when stimulated
>>11303111chastity is a good chance to make all of your secondary erogenous zones more sensitive! It feels amazing to train your torso, neck, lips and thighs so you start to quiver and leak from being caressed and groped
>>11301987The last time you posted this wip cage had a different shape, I liked it more...
What ring size and ball gaps do you guys typically have? Iโm having difficulty getting a good range, and was wondering what sort of averages I should be looking for
>>11302862>What is the question hoping to find?How the fuck should I know retard? Do you not understand how questions work?
>>11302862you could have just said "i don't think it will change anything, is there any particular reason why you're asking?" but of course you had to lash out like some angsty hormonal teenager
>>11303111nipple play leveled up my game far more than accessorizing or butt plugs, truly an unsung hero
>>11300269glorious chinese manufacturing standards
I would not fuck with it
>>11303017oh no, unfortunately I'm still plagued by erections t_t
I can't wait to get back to grad school so I can move out and start caging/dressing up again. So fucking excited
>>11300269What brand did you buy specifically? Iโm looking at a salt shaker myself and would like to try avoiding your bad luck
>>11300269Why do people like these salt shaker cages. They're so ugly. Is it to just pretend you don't have a dick or something?
>>11303715Its psychological i guess
for me, the smaller the cage = better
makes me feel emasculated and more horny
but imo it does look better and it feels better with a flat cage or a innie cage
>>11302862Retard stfu
>>11302865>yeuLearn to spell you inbred tard
>>11298349 (OP)Are chastity cages a legitimate way of slowing down my masturbation habits? I'm fapping so much it's becoming a problem, and I want to know if this will help.
Note: I'm not asking if it's POSSIBLE they can help, obviously they can. But this is also my fetish and I already have a cage. Given that, will a cage make it so I think about sex less often, or will it just make it worse?
>>11303747Itโll probably keep you from getting ED before 30 if you actually stick to it, but the psychological side of masturbation? Probably not? It takes more than just a cage to curb an addiction, especially since it wonโt stop you from cumming and getting that dopamine hit
>>11301578nta but I'm also looking for anyone's experiences / advice post-orchi. are we in the realm of feasibility here for non-longterm wear or is it just not doable? wanna get neutered and am trying to minimize downsides
>>11303747In my experience it made me cut down on low quality orgasms, before I'd be way too eager to just do a quick fap when I was bored for tiny blast of dopamine, now that I actualyl have to put some effort into orgasm or don't orgasm at all a lot of the time masturbation has become alot more satisfying and I find I fill time that would have been spent doing those quick faps with other stuff I actually want/need to do. YMMV.
>>11303581idk having someone gently rest their hand on your cheek and caress you lips with their thumb until you gasp gently in pleasure only to use the opportunity to slip their thumb into your mouth for you to suck on it is pretty good
>>11303799You would likely need to use a belt to hold a cage in place. If you wanted to fully commit, I've seen shaft only chastity devices that are held in by a piercing, using either a Prince Albert, Frenum, Ampallang, or a Apadravya piercing.
I have a PA piercing that I enjoy, no experience with a cage that makes use of it yet. Though I gotta warn you getting a PA is like [spoiler] Getting your dick caught in a metal zipper while putting on your pants, and the pain lasts [/spoiler] for two weeks while it heals.
Is it possible to get a chastity cage to work with only one ball?
>>11303940I imagine you'd just need to use a smaller ring yeah
Any recommendations for nipple toys?
>>11304042https://www.amazon.com/Pcs-Nipple-Corector-Inverted-Massager/dp/B0DHDDVJSS/ref=sr_1_2?sr=8-2
my favorite has been these kind of pumps, together with those small clear suckers (i got some of those from temu recently and they work great)
tried multiple different nipple vibrators but they all suck
using your hands and fingers on your nipples is the best way. You need to build up sensitivity in your nipples, probably wont feel too much at the start. For me it took around 1-2 weeks before it started feeling good
Flat cage is so much more comfortable, and fucking cuter ! holy shit I've upgraded.
>>11304253I know that feel anon, I haven't worn my other cage in nearly a year. It's also so much nicer to rub
>>11304253Inverted or no?
Honestly after the adjustment period I find it absolutely crazy how comfortable it is. Crazy that cages with breathing room feel worse than something pushing into the flesh.
>>11304270>rubbingI'm on an anal-only period, sooo... I'm not a cheating little slut like you. btw I've tried my vibrator on it and it was clearly uncomfortable, a cheat you can do with normie cage. So it's even nicer.
>>11304285No not inverted, but my clit is like bearly 2 inches now lmao.
Chastity is officially coming in saturday along with some panties. Im all smooth and trying to fem up. What am I in for really? am I cooked? dont have a dildo dont plan on buying one....but is this gonna make me jump that fence
does anyone know what kinda bra this is was wanting to get something similar
>>11304412Initially, it'll be uncomfortable. Make sure the ring isn't too tight, or too loose, and makes sure your cage is small enough to fit you; too big is, ironically, far more uncomfortable than too small. If you over-estimated your size, you might have to buy a new cage. You're going to have trouble with morning wood waking you up at first, but eventually your body will just... get used to it.
>>11304414That's a camisole. A short one, it might be hard to find one exactly like that. I'm not really a fan of them, personally, so I've never looked.
>>11303493Retard calm down, this is just a basket weaving forum
>>11304428NTA but what is โuncomfortable?โ Is it a rough, kinda burning sensation on the part of the ring thatโs under the balls? Mines plastic, feels pretty smooth to the touch, strangely enough. Is that a material thing or a body reaction thing?
>>11304591Happens to me to, I think it's chafing. It could be material incompatibility, but it's not happening anywhere but the base, right? I partially solved it by wrapping the ring in bandaids; it hasn't been an issue since then.
>>11304509damn it took you two days to come up with that?
I finally managed a proper prostate orgasm a couple of days ago and it's already rewritten how I recieve pleasure, I did it with a vibrator pressed on the outside of my pereneum just above my asshole, I was having trouble orgasming from internal stimulation but I just sat back and let it build and managed to spurt hard, couldn't move for like 3 minutes after because of how much pleasure I was in. Now it feels way more sensitive even inside, the first step really is the hardest one, finally on the way to being a full time butt slut
>>11304669Congrats slut! just did a session like this sitting down on it, feels amazing but I really center it on my hole, I should think a bit more about the perineum.
>>11304693I think just knowing the feeling to look for is the big difference, since an actual p-orgasm takes a lot of build up if you know you're in the right spot there's less doubt about it and you can concentrate on the pleasure
>>11304665Why you still getting trolled
>>11304412it came in early and ive just been leaking the whole time ive already leaked and ruined through a brand new pair of panties.....duuuuuude
>>1130473015 seconds typing a message on a picture I was already sending, I'm so trolled right now
>>11304591>>11304599I had this problem forever until I switched to a metal cage. I think the smoothness of the steel prevents the chafing.
>>11304428>too big is, ironically, far more uncomfortableI strongly disagree. Smaller cages are always more painful for me.
>You're going to have trouble with morning wood waking you up at firstAnd this is the biggest problem. I kept getting woken up from the pain of getting hard in a small cage while sleeping.
I can't control that and I can't be sacrificing my sleep. Almost gave up chastity because of this. Until I got a cage big enough to get hard without pain.
>>11304873Aren't metal cages heavy? I'd imagine they'd be an uncomfortable weight. I've only ever worn resin cages. Specifically, a real Holy Trainer, I think a v3?--I'm not sure, I didn't buy it--and knock-off Holy Trainer v5s.
>>11304881Well, if your dick is big, then yeah, a larger cage might fit better. I've got a small member, so I ran into a problem with the first cage I was bought; it was too big, so it was annoying to keep the urination hole lines up, and when I got an erection, I'd like, almost fully get an erection, and it'd be painful inside it, and it'd pull my balls really uncomfortably. The cage sized I switched to keeps me from actually like, fully getting erect, and getting an erection feels more like a... pressure gently squeezing down on me rather than painful, and it's not yanking on my balls anymore.
I suppose I was really only thinking from my own experiences.
>>11304948>Aren't metal cages heavy?Not really. I have a Holy Trainer as well and they're about the same weight. The metal cage has less material so it evens out. The ring is thinner and it has metal bars instead of solid plastic.
>it'd pull my ballsThat's only a problem for me with small cages. There's no room for the dick so it tries to push out and pulls the balls with it.
>keeps me from actually like, fully getting erectNone of my cages have ever really managed this, apart from the pain taking my mind off arousal. Some people might be into that, but I think cages should encourage arousal rather than punish it.
need lots of votes
https://chaster.app/sessions/Cd3Q5qmT2qu3o1XX
Hey bros. Im stuck inside on a rainy day. Sell me on locking myself up
>>11303111Trips of truth. Been playing with my nips since I was a teenager, fucking absolutely love how much of a slutty little subby bitch it makes me feel like. Pairs perfectly with chastity and anal. I can regularly come from just my nips in chastity and it feels fuckin amazing.
>>11305532I always assumed that hetero couples doing chastity play were more about that and were the majority, although then you step into the realm of cuck play so good luck with that.
I think sissy chastity just appears more common because the hentai is better.
I say this as a sissy in chastity lmao
>>11305498it makes all kinds of erotic stimulation better, and helps train you to have higher quality orgasms
>>11305685Well I can't say what the situation is on the whole because 4chan is the only place where I interact with people, but here it's heavily skewed towards sissies. I'm not even opposed to other men, as the chastity scene is a huge sausage fest due to cages being so cheap now. What annoys me in this is that I like the wait, tension and frustration of not cumming, but buttsluts just bypass the whole thing by pounding prostates. It's even the preferred way of cumming! You guys should be wearing a fuckin locking hatch over your ass, and then it'd be chastity again. I've had very enjoyable sessions with other dudes, but finding someone who's not looking to use a chastity cage as a tool for buttslut training is so rare now.
>>11298349 (OP)I want to buy myself a flat cage to get rid of masturbation.
>>11303715not like the one posted, but for me a flat cage is just so much more comfortable. The only other cage that's more comfortable is a silicone one, but because of it size it feels odd in my panties.
>>11305564>Pairs perfectly with chastity and anal. I can regularly come from just my nips in chastity and it feels fuckin amazing.Thats hot
Never had an anal orgasm but i love buttplugs. I've only had nipple orgasms twice with no other stimulation. What i usually do is use a micro bullet vibrator inside my flat cage that i'll turn on and off while playing with my nipples. Pairing this with a buttplug and a VR headset spamming porn = heaven
I always turn off the vibrator when im climaxing though, really trying to condition myself to be able to have more nipple only orgasms. They were so fucking good.
>>11304859>Even admits it
>>11305708Yeah I guess the issue is that chastity itself isn't really the fetish but more of a tool to help a wider number of fetishes, so you're sharing the space with people who aren't really into the same stuff as you, helps to have more folks when it comes to asking practical questions though since I guess this is one of the more 'technical' kinks
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>>11298349 (OP)Wondering if a flat cage is appropriate for a 7 inches, 17.5 cent penis? Any recommendations?
Also how you call that straps set up in pic
Smelling feet while in chastity with a vibrating buttplug in the ass feel sooo damn good. I squirted in my panties in less than 15 minutes.
>>11306170It might be too big if you're talking 17cm soft. I'm around 16cm but hard and a flat cage is perfect. The straps are called a harness. I'd recommend getting some cheap ones to get a feel for it, preferably with multiple rings, because in my experience that's the important part for comfort/fit.
how the fuck do you function in chastity
i usually cum like 5 times a day at least but i love being locked and i just get so overwhelmed and frustrated i literally can't do anything else but look at lewd stuff and tease myself and get more and more desperate
>>11306254It's been one month without cumming for me. You kind of.... change, transform, that's... interesting.
>>11306254You kinda get used to it. I haven't had a *real* orgasm in about 2-3 months
>>11306312Tell him anon, after a while you become a real little slut...
>>11306254I wouldn't call jacking it 5 times a day 'functioning'
>>11306254>i literally can't do anything else but look at lewd stuff and tease myself and get more and more desperateThis is a good thing. Enjoy it!
>>11300007Longest with no unlocking at all? 1 week.
Longest continuous chastity with unlocks only for cleaning? 14 months. I had to come out of it due to life circumstances but I would have been happy to stay in it forever. Maybe I should go back to long term lockup...
>>11300489I do not use a catheter. I like wearing a nub for long term comfort and an innie for fun/punishment.
Has anyone experimented with hooking up a tens unit to their chastity cage?
>be me
>work in emergency room
>people coming in with sex-related problems from time to time
>want to minimize humiliation
If a patient came in and had one of these chastity cages on their genitals, are there any "generic" keys or skeleton keys I could buy and keep in one of the cabinets to get it off in an emergency?
>>11306571If its a cheap one from Ali express or Amazon. Yes, they all use the same tumbler mechanism. so the same key works for all of them.
If its a more expensive one, probably not.
If its a padlock one, you can break the padlock easily with a sharp tap from a hammer (Just be careful not to hit their junk, of course)
>>11302426If this anon is still around, "done for good" still sounds a bit harsh for her asking you for something you don't wanna do.
"Babe wanna get real BBC?"
"Nah that's gay"
"ok"
If she needles the fuck out of you and treats you poorly for saying no, then yea yeet that bitch in the trash.
>>11306577I can't justify swinging a hammer around a patient without getting a write-up. It'd just look bad. But I'll try having one of those lock-picking lawyer rakes to get those.
>>11306338chastity taught me that you can be horny in the butt. Shocking discovery.
>>11306610Buy the keys on Aliexpress, they sell spares for dumb fucks like me who forget where they dropped the lock. It's like 5 dollars.
>>11306571>>11306577There's no reason for all that risk, just amputate the penis
>>11306571lmao
are you actually able to make executive decisions on that kind of thing and just pull out a shim?
>>11304289>bearly 2 inches nowDo you attribute that to wearing the cage a lot? Was actually hoping to get mine to shrink.
>>11300007Around 2 months with weekly unlocks for bathing and grooming. Both me and my gf wanted me to go longer but I had to visit relatives for holidays.
>>11304669Jealous. Ive been trying with anal and other stuff but midway through but I just keep getting the urge to pee during parts of it. Was hoping to get some suggestions for toys while locked if anyone has any.
>>11306788>Do you attribute that to wearing the cage a lot? Was actually hoping to get mine to shrink.I'm talking about the size with the cage on. Since I'm still too much of a fag to keep it at night, it doesn't shrink.
>>11306788You aren't going to noticeably shrink your dick through chastity alone, it might get smaller temporarily after a long period of wear but it'll go back to how it was after a little while. The only way to genuinely shrink it is through medical intervention.
Is it crazy if I say and think I've truly found my real place and nature by wearing the cage? I've fought it so much for so long but in the end I've always been more of a sub. Any other anons here who had kind of a 'mystical revelation'?
I need hypno audios recommendations. The one I usually HFO to (Shibby's Slutty Sissy) is getting stale at this point.
>>11306851wearing a cage literally made me realise I was trans yeah, I was already a sub but something about removing my cock from the equation made it all click into place
>>11306863Interesting, so are you taking hormones and all? because wearing the cage doesn't stop all the testosterone, even if you're on the low side, I'm fucking fit right now since I sport a whole lot to evacuate a bit isntead of cumming.
>>11306863>>11306851Discovered that I could wear a cage and play dress up in a lot of cute ways with my member. Helped me figure out that I was ok with it and didnt need SRS and infact I can have sex be super enjoyable. I hesitate to call it an identity but ig knowing theres other short and small people that like this stuff and some also were bullied in school like me, helped me feel a lot better about myself. And ofc once I stopped letting myself be guilt tripped by my family I was able to be happier and make friends and get a partner.
>>11306898I'm trying to be but the UK is a shitty place to live so I can't get my preferred t-blockers fucking anywhere right now so I have to wait and it sucks
>>11306944Yeah I kind of had a similar thing, I just want to be more androgynous, don't want boobs or to cut off my dick n balls, but also don't really want to use my dick for sex
There was one anon who was making a computer program for chastity which was styled as some sort of a corporate program from 80's, are you still here?
>>11306254take it up the ass. hands free anal orgasms when locked up are literally tens of times more powerful and you will not miss the puny penile masturbating one bit
>>11306743>>11307136butt stuff is uncomfortable and a hassle though...
>>11307141Personally I agree with you.
Back to your original post, I love being horny and staring at porn for sometimes hours. Just the feeling of arousal feels nice, too. Girls start to look so sexy and it's easy to begin to stare. Then because your dick is locked away, you just stay horny because you can't make the feeling go away by jerking off. It's even better when you have someone to talk to about it.
>>11307150god yes it's addictive
i always get let down because anyone i talk to always cums first and never just wants to stew in horniness
>>11307152I think that's part of the charm, you're constantly denied, while someone else is getting off. That said if they just stonewall you afterwards, I can see why you'd get annoyed. That would be quite rude.
>>11307152god the idea of two people being in chastity and desperately trying to get each other to cum but not being able to is so hot
>>11306863Same, anon. I was reading through these threads and thinking about how everyone in these threads thought of chastity as a way to deny themselves while for me it felt like a way to give myself more pleasure when it hit me that the reason for that is because I can only enjoy myself when my pp is disabled. Also realized I'm 100% a sub and like the humiliating/degrading parts of it.
>>11307009Ah good luck anon, I was in your boat too. I actually decided to start my long term lockup immediately after deciding to get on HRT and set my release condition on "started taking HRT". It ended up taking over a year... and I didn't unlock for another few months either.
>>11307152Stewing in horniness is so good and I don't know why more people don't talk about it. One of my favorite things about chastity is that I can just lock up and spend a few hours looking at porn while vibing my cage and ballbusting with a dildo, knowing that it's not going to get me off but enjoying the feelings anyway, before finally fucking my ass and maaaaaaybe getting to cum.
>>11307249im just too addicted to edging, in a cage I get too little stimulation
which is like, the point, but I want to be going insane right on the edge of cumming as much as possible
>>11307265Post your discord. I'm
>>11307156Maybe we could arrange something interesting... You sound like a fun anon to tease.
>>11307265You should work on retraining your body to see pleasure as coming from different things. I've been edging for the last hour in a half while wearing an innie cage. It's much better (imo) than anything I could do uncaged.
>>11307276i-if you insist...
>>11307329You say that but you didn't post it...
>>11307332anon, read the funny little symbols in the filename
I feel bad for not sleeping with it yet.
Whats the best small cages for longterm?(im veryyy small ~5cm flaccid 12cm erect) can't be flat cages, gotta be able to pee without a tube. Had a nub v2 back in the day but it had such a huge flat part on the top that made it easy to see through sweatpants&shorts
>>11307350You're about the same size as me, maybe a little smaller flaccid, and the HolyTrainer Nub fits me perfectly. However, button-lock mechanism on the V5 is anecdotally unreliable, and I personally have had to cut myself out of it. Granted, that was with a knock-off V5, so maybe the real ones, from the HolyTrainer website, wouldn't have that as a potential issue.
>>11306608I care about her, but not enough to let her walk all over me, or try to force myself to be something I can't be.
One of the other anons,
>>11299505, made a really good point: if she's willing to force the issue, despite how uncomfortable I am with it, then I clearly can't be what she needs, and neither of us will really be happy with the relationship.
>>11307350Oh, reading comprehension of a third grader. I didn't see you mentioned you already tried the nub. Then, honestly, I don't know; have you tried wearing skirts?
>>11307375>>11307381hmmmmm
maybe the nub isn't so bad after all
tried it again now after it was lying dormant for years. peeing wasn't so bad when i sat down, other then peeing on my balls a bit. But should be doable if i just hold back my sack a bit.
Were you guys using a belt with the cage when doing longterm? was a bit hard to 'aim' down into the toilet when trying to pee with the belt harness
>>11298435I got that cage and it's so bulky! You're right about the comfort, no need for a strap and it feels good, plenty of space to sit flacid. I just don't know how you can say it's good for everyday wear, how baggy are your pants?? I feel like it would be visible for me.
>>11307350>that smallLol, lmao even [spoiler]I hope you like teasing[/spoiler]
>>11307417A little peeing challenge is part of the fun. I find flow to be the most important thing. I can always wipe up a little excess, but some cages have a really narrow channel that take forever to pee in, if you even get it all out.
>>11307417Yeah I'm always peeing on my balls with the nub, nothing a swuare of toilet paper doesn't fix tho, sometimes it takes a while to get my hole against the entrance too but I've got a decent amount of foreskin so I can just kind of pull it through to hold my dick in place
>>11307512Yes, it's a little bulky but it's not at all visible under my ordinary jeans.
i was messing around with a vibrator on my cage after 4 days of wearing it and i came a little by accident. think i need to lock up my vibes in my lock box too
can anyone recommend a flat cage for long-term wear? the holytrainer v5 nub is getting too big for me after years of hrt
>>11302313Added a little time to this cutie.
>>11307786Or use it to train your boipuss and perineum...
>>11307786ruined orgasms through the cage are fine, just be careful
>>11303799hey don't know if you're still looking but I literally just saw a post on the chastity subreddit of someone who'd had an orchi and were using a flat cage, so it seems at least possible.
Did you ever have a boy beg you online for you to shave off minutes off his lock-up time?
>>11307935like reaching enlightenment, the desire to be unlocked indicates an unworthiness to be unlocked
I can now mostly sleep well with it... holy shit, now I've now no reason, besides washing, to remove the cage ever.
>>11308273> besides washing, Get one of these. It works great for cleaning inside the cage while wearing it.
https://www.amazon.com/Silicone-Reusable-Cleaning-Bendable-Cleaners/dp/B0D2GXNPJL/ref=sr_1_7
>>11308324man this would be perfect if I didn't also have a foreskin that needs cleaning when my cage does
>>11307894i have a lovesense edge and ambi. Usually use both and have a script i threw together to vibe both randomly and tease me during self bondage but I guess I misunderestimated the strength of the vibe maybe ill just lock up the ambi so i have to focus on prostate stuff purely...
>>11307906is it actually something to worry about? i usually try to avoid cumming with the cage on just because i find it more fun to let it build up as much as possible and im worried if i use it too much im just gonna cum with the cage on all the time and defeat the point
>>11307786>>11308387If you use a vibrator on a cage, and you orgasm, even a ruined orgasm, you're not really engaging in chastity, you're just masturbating in a different way. You're only allowed to try and stimulate the non-masculine parts of you, like the perineum, nipples, and ass. If it's a day that's set aside as a 'release day,' as in day you're allowed to orgasm, then it's fine, you can cum with the vibrator on the cage.
My keyholder made that rule, and I followed it even while we were separated because it made sense.
Now, if you don't care about the 'chastity' aspect of chastity play, and are just using it like you would any other sex toy, then there really are no rules, cum all you want.
>>11298758It also shrinks your cock
>>11308401>'release day,'How often? I've not cummed for a month and I don't know when now... i'm afraid of the post nut clarity so I try to not have any ^^. It's interesting to know how deep into the rabbit hole chastity can make you go.
so i tried longterm chastity a couple years ago while trying to go for an anal orgasm
but... it just made me less horny overall? after 2 and a half weeks of dildo anal plapping i just got bored and gave up
i love being 'filled' up with a buttplug though, but back and forth penetration does nothing for me. Anyone else had it like this?
>>11308439depends on the individual but libido builds quickly peaking around 2 weeks and then falls off. imo do whatever keeps it going for you before it falls off. watching porn, edging, ruining with a vibrator, butt play, etc
>>11308451Oh, that must've been it then yeah. My libido just disappeared, was watching porn but did not do any other stimulation other then anal. Now that i think about it i do remember my hornyness getting higher and higher and around day 10~ was probably the closest i got to an anal orgasm, but then it just went downhill.
>>11308505try some kind of weekly session with the goal to be unfulfilled and/or frustrated afterwards, as its a good sign of libido reset. imo being caged for denial is pointless without perpetual hornyness. either keep it going by teasing yourself or just unlock and cum whenever you're just past the peak, whatever works.
I think a few of the perma-chastity types are missing out if they're waiting for their libido to normalise and get used to the cage.
>>11308424When I was managing my own locking I let myself cum about once every 3-6 days. I'd let myself out for hygiene purposes once every 3 days, with a timelock lockbox, and if I felt like masturbating, I would.
>post nut clarityMy post-nut clarity actually made me regret leaving the cage off long enough to masturbate to completion. Like, I'd be real excited to get the cage off, and as soon as I'd cum, I'd think "Ah fuck why'd I do that?" and hurry to get it back on. Won't have that problem now that I'm no longer managing my own keys.
>>11308451that's interesting but I guess it makes sense, though it seems everyone reacts to chastity differently, I've been locked up for a month now but I've cummed a few times either from anal or a vibrator during that time so I never reached what you call 'peak' libido. Might have to try for that next but playing with my ass is too fun and I've got a grindr date tomorrow so might not happen any time soon
new cage arrived and I haven't been on chaster in a bit
https://chaster.app/sessions/NJq7XU7aFwA5vXWV
>>11308347Oh right; not a problem I have hahaha
>>11307141Not really, ditch the amerifat burger diet so you stop shitting grease
>>11307248Chastity doesn't mean you have to self mutilate tho
>>11308424It's time to cum from just anal
>>11308814do you start leaking from your cage if you don't post about the culture war for 0.35 seconds? are you a little slut? are you a little sissy slut for Elon? do you ache for his watery TRT Boer seed? are you going to save the white race with your boiwomb? or are you going to post some porn?
thinking about starting up chastity again but now i'm on hrt, how frequently should i unlock so i don't get penis atrophy?
If I'm like 5-6in flaccid and 7-8 in hard what can I do? Even the largest cages I've tried required the stocking trick to get on and we're not very comfy. As well as it kinda being pushed out and almost hanging a bit as it can't fit up snug to my pelvic area. Any tips or am I bound to just be a twink that can't realistically do much chastity?
>>11308971similar size, flats the only cages that work for me
>>11308983Really? I always thought those were going to be way to small and the pressure of things wanting to push back out would be a lot, being uncomfortable or pushing the cage far from being up and snug against my pelvic area. Any tips for ones to try, or ways to wear one?
>>11308919I'm pretty sure hrt is going to take care of that by itself, is penis atrophy while locked and on hrt a known thing? Normal chastity doesn't really cause permanent shrinkage
>>11308992get a harness, flat/inverted cages fit most dick sizes because they use the dimensions of your body itself
>>11309006I often see these kind of nipples on the art here. can you get that from nipple pumps alone or do you need hrt?
>>11308827You seem mentally unwell
Please see a doctor and get some meds
Now plapping my balls with the shoes I bought on Aliexpress that look like my therapist shoes. lol I love chastity.
>>11309147That's some 10/10 degeneracy, nice
>>11308919just embrace the atrophy. become a true sissy slut
>>11309154Th-thanks. Makes my clit fucking hard btw.
>>11309020nipple pumps would do the trick, but they go back to normal pretty fast (like 1/3rd of the time you pumped them). Dunno about hrt, but i highly doubt anyone could get nipples like that
>>11309147What do you mean by plapping?
>>11309147>shoes I bought on Aliexpress that look like my therapist shoeslink
>>11309006well hrt itself is a mixed bag, but most of the time it's use it or lose it. which is why chastity + hrt is a known thing to cause shrinkage. i just don't know how frequently i should be getting hard to avoid it.
>>11309180honestly, i'd be lying if i said that wasn't a bit tempting...
Don't know if you drviantsare into it but couples+chastity+matching panties is my ultimate fetish combo so I made a thread in /hc/ to post my (pretty small) collection: >>>/hc/2542956
>>11309147>>11309296>>11309436Well shit, made myself bust at last this way... "plapgasm" I guess. After one month of abstinence. Post-nut was not too bad.
I mostly use chastity as masturbatory aid but I also want to try locking myself for a while and have no self controll so my question now is how long should I yry to wear it for at the beginning and what can I do to make it more enjoyable in a longer term then few hours while masturbating or about to masturbate?
>>11309421A week is a must but i would aim for every 3 days or more often for safety reasons in case you want to use it or have srs later so its a bit troublesome with chastity but you can always make edging a part of it all, right?
>>11309561if you've worn it for a week or two with no problems (pain, discoloration, etc) then get a lockbox and use chaster or something to store the code so you dont have the keys anymore
make it more enjoyable by doing stuff that ignores your dick, eg stimulating other parts of the body while looking at porn
>>11309564hmm, yeah true. i'll also take this into account. honestly i feel like keeping some length is the safer bet but it would also just be really hot to let it shrink.
>>11309561The big thing for me was taking on of my keys and freezing it in a block of ice as a kind symbolic gesture that I was locked in, so try to figure out something like that, obviously you'll still need the spare key for cleaning and emergencies but getting into the mindset that you don't have permission to unlock yourself helps a lot.
>present myself on grindr as a caged up sissy
>mostly get trash messages and awful dick pics
>get a message from a guy
>he's confident and charming
>muscular, hairy, nice cock
>go to his place
>he takes control
>fucks me hard
>takes control, orders me around
>feel like a sex toy
>leak out of my cage a lot
Holy shit it feels so good to just give in and let someone take control, no stress, no worries about not being able to get hard or cum, just being an obedient sissy sex toy. I understand what women mean when they say they want a 'real' man, so many guys are just way too timid and unwilling to actually be dominant.
>>11309260I think it is possible but it really depends on the person, their dosage etc etc,
If you were to get breasts like that it would probably be as they're developing and would soon grow past that into more 'normal' tits, I've heard that starting with too high a does of estrogen can gives you cone shaped boobs to beging with.
>>11309820hot, I wish I could have done that but first I'm a bit too old now and I've not a feminine body at all. I'd be more like a "bear" as they say, except I shave now in chastity.
>>11298594yeah there needs to be more of that stuff
Guys I find now hot to see my "cock" limp and soft.
>>11298666I have the same problem. I need to wear a large ring to avoid blood cutting off and my balls aching. Being a grower doesn't help. I'm using a flat salt shaker style cage with a catheter and I'm using a strap and I put on baby oil to help it. The pain goes away immediately, because it is the friction of the ring on the skin that causes it.
>>11309975Can you give a little insight into using the catheter? How long do you typically use it for? Is it silicone or one of those metal tubes?
>>11310006Silicone, about 15~20cm long (I honestly don't remember). It helps peeing on a flat cage.
I can keep it 24/7, but I remove it every other day for a deep clean. Catheters can smell super nasty and there is always a risk of an UTI if you're not careful.
To insert the first time it was very painful and I was sore for a week after, but right now I can keep it on easily. It doesn't prevent pee from going around it and leaking (you'll need to control the flow so there's not much pressure) but it helps a lot.
One downside is that the pee inside the catheter isn't always drained, so when I'm locked and I can't shower properly and clean it inside using the shower hose (yes, pouring water inside it if I'm not taking it off to deep clean), I pack panty liners (pads) so any drips won't go into my underwear or pants.
Overall, if you're into it, you're gonna either hate it or love it. Depends a lot.
>>11310014Here's the one I got. It's no longer available, but you can find many options identical on ali:
https://www.aliexpress.com/item/1005003444446114.html
I got the whole set 50mm ring with the catheter. It's 142mm long.
I did not get the one with spikes though... That's a bit too much, and I don't think it would be comfortable for long term wear.
>>11310014>>11310021I bought a flat one with a little metal insert thing but I've been too pussy to try it yet... I do really want to try but I'm so noided and nervous about the idea of it...
>>11310039You need to listen to your body. Pain, if you're not used to urethral play, will be common, but it can't be unbearable. You need to go slow into it.
If you can, I'd invest in a few urethral sounds first, and use lube.
Mine I don't really need to use, but I always edge myself, so I use my precum for it to slide in easily. Going in dry is like trying to sit on a monster dildo without lube: nothing but pain and suffering, and not the good kind.
Help ADD and share this cutie too https://chaster.app/sessions/TyQb5jSALORbJ7h1
This lock is gettiing low on time too, lets fix that: https://chaster.app/sessions/4EZkCOtgPRuG72ji
>>11309579I think I could wear it for 2 days without chaffing of the sack because last time I had problems with it after a day but I might have wore it improperly because I haven't wore it for a while. Or maybe I need new cage because I got smaller when soft lol
>>11309816I could only get to that with some sort of online keyholding because otherwise I know nothing is stopping me from unlocking even if the keys would be in a lockbox I can get thrm out by ending the lock or simmilar means
>>11309743If you dont want srs you can go for it but otherwise you will be harming your future self, imo you should try to unlock and get hard every few days at the start and see where it will lead you
>>11309421Do it, become your best sissy self
>>11310284honestly i've always been leaning towards no srs, part of the reason being my chastity kink...
>>11310572again, kinda tempting desu.
>>11310575brother, i will be doing the same from the first of july