>>81631189
Our cultural fascination with sex and our association with it as a status symbol has led to a lot of neuroticism, it used to be considered a niche part of someone's personal life. Intimacy is certainly a fundamental need, but how large of a part of "purpose" and "status" it makes up today is nothing short of mental illness. Nobody in the 1800's would ever hand over evaluation of someone's value as a human being to a girls pussy tingles, and assume one who doesn't give those must be some kind of subhuman to be mocked. Deeply feminine and female worshipping culture, I'd recommend wrestling free of it's expectations, it'll make you much more nonchalant.