OK attic aside, is it normal for parents to do this other shit, though? I'm trying to figure out if my situation is standard-issue "strict immigrant parents" or if it's some next-level psychological ops.

>Be me, literal toddler
>Apparently throw tantrums like every other fucking 3-year-old
>Parents + school immediately say I'm "sped"
>Entire childhood becomes a "special needs" containment protocol
>Have a 1:1 aide glued to me from K-6, can't take a shit without supervision
>Forced to ride short bus and sit at peanut free table
>Parents ban me from joining normal Boy Scouts or going to normal summer sleepaway camp (the YMCA one, not some bougie shit), demanding I join the "special" versions or none at all
>My entire social life was engineered af, they encouraged me to only hang out with other Chinese kids or the other autists from my sperg classes

My whole "basketcase" personality and rage-meltdowns in middle school (which got me expelled) ain't surprising considering they spent a decade treating me like a defective lab rat and then acted shocked when I started biting the scientists.

Is this just normal "tough love" from boomer Asian parents who don't know better, or am I actually being mindraped and fucked over? Trying to figure out how much of my current "retardation" is my fault vs. a feature programmed into me by them.