How should one go about getting a girlfriend? 23M in college by the way. I go to gym, classes, bars, and some clubs but no luck. Tell me EXACTLY what you would do in college to get with these girls

How do you get a girlfriend as a 28 year old male? I have never so much as even held a girls hand. I just want a woman to love me so bad.

Do you think lifting and gaining weight would have helped Elliot Rodger get girls?