Hello, I have a legitimate question, I am not trying to be mean:

I currently volunteer at a non profit that seeks to provide legal and psychological help to trans kids and their families. It's small, like, the main thing right now is just a monthly meeting for the kids and their parents to vent and stuff.
Most of the kids that come are FtM and I am not trying to be toxic but I feel like most of them will detransition by 18. They'll forget what they were all their teenage years and that's it, they'll ostracize the only one who might not detrans.
Am I being too judgmental to some random 15 year olds? Am I projecting onto them?