Thought leaders run around in circles wondering why men aren't marrying, but completely ignore the fact that the cultural customs surrounding marriage are un-masculine.
>bent-knee proposals
>engagement ring for her, no engagement car for him
>"HER day"
>Instagram "I said YES" pics that show the ring but not the male fiancee
>Woman wears white while man wears funeral black
>obnoxious excessive photo taking
The aesthetics here are just really girly and not anything a self-respecting Man would ever get involved in without at least a little hesitation.
Maybe if TV shows and other culturally influential institutions promoted a manlier vision of marriage, men would want to get married? Maybe?

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