OP here - I took the advice ITT and I am trying Turtlewow on an RP (pve) server.

I find the dorf biome comfiest, so I'm going to play a cool gun-wielding dwarf guy. Gonna stick on a lore video and get questing I guess. Whether I like it or not, better to try than sit and whine in a thread forever I guess

thanks for the suggestion anons